When are you getting married?

Remember noong medyo bata ka pa lang... People tend to ask you kung kailan ka magkakaroon ng girlfriend. Sometimes napapakunot noo lang ako kasi to be honest, that time wala pa talaga sa vocabulary ko ang magkaroon ng girlfriend.

When I was in Philippines, I tried to court some (yung bang flirt lang) pero in the end wala ding nangyari.. Basted or bente dos ang naging kapalaran ko... hehehe... That time for me it's okay... wala pa talaga sa loob ko ang pagkakaroon ng GF.. parang for the sake having someone yun lng pero in the end of the day you're still single... hehehe (fling ba... )

Sino makakapagsabing sa Singapore pa ako magkakaroon ng girlfriend? Before I told to myself that if I will have a GF.. she will be mylife time partner... but I'm wrong... you cannot tell if you are meant to each other if you will not enter to that relationship.

Now people are not asking me kung kailan ako magkaka-gf but rather when I will getting married... hahaha...some people are so excited for me... but am I excited? to be honest i dunno how to answer it. I have a lot of Indian friends now and most of them are already married... They keep asking me when I'm getting married? I just smile to them and tell them that I'm not yet ready... I don't have enough savings to sustain a life in marriedhood.. I don't have my own house... I don't have anything... I'm living in a simple bachelors life... hehehe... They asked me, when I will be ready? I told them when I'm already settle... and another question.. When was that? Actually my officemates, they really like to ask me a lot of questions.. hehehe... dunno... In the end of never ending questions they told me that why I'm wasting my time, wherein kung magpakasal ako after few years it will be a same thing... at least if I'm getting married now I can see how my children will grow up... To be honest there's certain points that they are right but in my opion if you're getting married for the sake you want to have wife and kids but in reality you don't like the girl.. it is worthless isn't it?

Anyways, I'm just sharing this because I'm already 27... hehehe... my age is ideal to settle down... hehehe... and have my own family... But as I've said: Am I ready??? well, it's a big NO for now... hehehe...

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Excess Cargo: For those who greeted me during my bday... super thanks a lot mga friendship... hehehe..

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